Tag: resolutions

  • New year, new blog!

    New year, new blog!

    New year, new blog | seefoodplay.com

    Reading through my last blog post, all I keep thinking is… what a difference a year makes. This time last year, I was adventuring in the Maldives on a much-needed two week vacay. Now, I’m finishing the holiday period getting ready to head back into work in cold and rainy London.

    The new year period is always a time for reflection: on the past year, lessons learned, experiences had and life in general. Last year, I remember a distinct feeling of exhaustion. Just plain tired, from work, from doing too much, and from the feeling of life not going in the direction that I hoped. I was happy to leave 2016 in the dust as I transitioned to 2017, dancing it up on a party boat in the Indian Ocean. This year, though, I’m feeling a bit different. I’m less inclined to write 2017 off as having been a shit year. Yes, lots of shit things happened and it was long, tough, and filled with more unpleasantness than I would have liked. But 2017 showed me something about myself that I already knew, but I didn’t know know. I’m resilient, and can handle whatever life throws at me.

    Even in the saddest moments, or the most challenging situations, we can always come out on the other side, and will almost always be stronger for it. I’m less focused now on living a perfect life and more into the idea of living my best life, whatever that happens to be. I’ve always spent a lot of time looking forward to the next big adventure, the next big life milestone, the next big achievement… in 2018, that will be different. As cliché as it sounds, my most sincere resolution is to learn to live in the moment. I wrote about enjoying the moment a few years back, and this year, I plan to do exactly that.

    So, you can call it a comeback – seefoodplay is renewed and refreshed, and will hopefully be better than ever! I’ve got lots of new content planned, and will be writing about some of my new favorite recipes, lots of travel ideas and trip reports, and of course a few DIY projects here and there.

    Stay tuned 🙂 xx

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  • Life: enjoy the process

    Life: enjoy the process

    It’s already December 2015. As in, one month away from January 2016. Ever have the feeling that a whole year of your life just flew by, in the blink of an eye? That’s definitely what I’m feeling right now. This past year has seen its ups and downs (though, mostly ups) and honestly I don’t know where the time went.

    Logging in this morning I realized that it has been months (yes, months) since I’ve added content here. But then I reflected on all the other stuff I’ve been up to, and didn’t feel so bad after understanding that I’ve had to make a few…priority adjustments, and some things just took over. That’s not so say that I don’t loooove seefoodplay.com, but sometimes you need to focus on other things that are more important at a particular moment in your life.

    So instead of pretending that I had 25 hours in a day and struggling to fit it all in, or worse yet, doing too much and start focusing on quantity rather than quality, I did what made sense for me: I took a break.

    Last summer, I went on a leadership training course geared towards women where I learned all sorts of self-improvement techniques and personal leadership skills. During our break-out sessions, a common remark from other participants was a feeling of being constantly overwhelmed, having trouble finding time to accomplish everything, or the feeling of not being enough. I’m definitely guilty of waking up on Sunday morning, already feeling stressed that I only have 16 hours to get everything done on my to-do list. Sound crazy to you? It should, because it is!

    My stress levels were through the roof, and I constantly felt like I wasn’t getting enough done. I wasn’t cooking enough, I wasn’t writing enough, I wasn’t spending enough time with Jonathan, I wasn’t working on creative projects enough. No matter what I did, it was never enough.

    So I’ve taken a step back and I’m spending time focusing on what matters most: the process. I’ve struggled with this my whole life, but sometimes you really need to force yourself to just enjoy what you’ve accomplished at any given moment, instead of always working towards some arbitrary (and probably unattainable) golden ring of success.

    When I was in high school, I couldn’t wait to go to college. In college, I couldn’t wait to study abroad. Couldn’t wait to get that next promotion. Couldn’t wait to buy an apartment. Couldn’t wait for that next travel experience. Couldn’t wait. couldn’t wait. couldn’t wait.

    So I’m already looking forward to 2016 as I am vowing to have a new perspective, a healthier (and less stressful) way of getting through life. I’m never going to slow down (after all, we are who we are) but I’m going to make sure that I always enjoy the process. And sometimes, you just gotta cruise though life not doing too much all…pulled by a pack of overly-energetic Arctic huskies towards a gorgeous Finnish sunset:

    Life: enjoy the process | seefoodplay.com

    And one of the processes that I truly enjoy is working on seefoodplay, so it’s back on my list of priorities and I’m really looking forward to sharing our adventures with you in the next few months. So stay tuned!

    Xx